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  1. Don Cheke
    16 March 2026 @ 12:54 am

    My thoughts before getting into the blog post.

    A couple of years ago I started to make 1000-piece puzzles for something to pull me away from my computer. I purchased a 2’ by 4’ table and set it up in an open space in the living room. Doing something other than computer work felt nice and the process of building the puzzles was/is an enjoyable challenge. I discovered that I make puzzles like I do everything else. I focus on the task and don’t stop until I am finished. As such, the puzzles were being completed in two or three days – three if I allowed some time to step away. Instead of feeling guilty, I decided that this is how I work and that it is okay to do them this way – it is part of who I am. That is not to say that I can’t take time to mediate and be still, but I do enjoy the engagement I bring to the tasks at hand. Luckily for me, I found that Costco often has puzzles for sale and they sell for a lot less than they do elsewhere. When I shop there, I will pick up four at a time.

    Whenever I finish a puzzle, I find a note from my wife that says, “Whoo-hoo!” It is her way of supporting the process. 👍😊

    My thoughts while reading the blog post.

    I have found new puzzles to occasionally have missing pieces, through no fault of mine, and once I found a puzzle with multiple pieces for the same spot – which likely meant that the pieces weren’t being ejected from the last puzzle pressing(s) and came out later. I wonder what these multiple pieces mean in the psychological sense of this blog post. Something to ponder, I would say.

    On the rare occasion, I have started a puzzle and come to a point where it is no fun at all. You know the type, too much of the same dark colors and no identifiable patterns that can help one make progress. In these cases, I have swept the works back in the box and moved on. Much like reading a lousy book that just doesn’t bring enjoyment – I feel that life is just too short to continue with these things. It is an analogy for life that says we can change paths – it’s not the end of the world to do so. In part, it is having the wisdom to know whether one should continue – or not.

    Can I ever relate to what you said here: “It is not just that an unfinished puzzle stays in your mind. It is that your mind actively continues working on it even when you’ve walked away from the table. While you’re making dinner, having a conversation or lying awake at 2 am. A quiet part of your brain is still turning the problem over. Still looking for the piece.”

    In case it isn’t apparent, I am looking at the puzzle in this blog post, and through my own interpretation, as an analogy of life itself.

    Through my own journey, I have discovered that there will always be missing pieces to the puzzle. There came a point when I realized that I would never find the answers for some of the big questions that I truly wanted answers for – that there wasn’t one single theory of everything. When I finally learned this and stopped looking, I felt more at peace than I ever had. That doesn’t mean that I don’t stop learning or trying to grow, but I can, at least, quit banging my head against the wall looking for that which cannot be found.

    The gold thread in this piece reminded me how the journey of life unfolds one piece at a time. It’s something we can only define as logical, but it seems so magical since we couldn’t have imagined the pieces flowing in such a way – it seems designed for our benefit. It’s not as simple as just following the yellow brick road. When I look back on my work world it always appears that the last piece always prepared me for the next piece. Now through to the end of my work world, I couldn’t have planned that if I had tried – yet there it is in full color – a completed puzzle – a beauty like no other.

    Thanks Suhail, for another thought-provoking blog post.

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    • Suhail
      17 March 2026 @ 9:25 am

      Thank you so much, Don, for this thoughtful comment.

      I like that you set up a dedicated table in the living room. There is something really intentional about that. You gave the puzzle its own space, which in a way says everything about how seriously you take the practice of stepping away and doing something interesting but different.

      And the “Whoo-hoo!” notes from your wife made me smile. That small gesture of support means more than people realise. It turns a solitary activity into something shared.

      Your point about completing puzzles quickly and choosing not to feel guilty about it really resonates. Self-knowledge is underrated. Knowing how you work and accepting it rather than fighting it, is one of the quieter forms of wisdom. Not everyone needs to be slow and meditative. Some people engage fully and finish fast and that is just as valid.

      The missing pieces and the duplicate pieces are a fascinating thought. I think the missing piece might represent the things in life we simply have to make peace with not knowing the gaps we eventually stop trying to fill.

      The duplicate piece is interesting too, perhaps it is a reminder that sometimes life offers us more than one way through the same moment, even if we only needed one.

      Your point about abandoned puzzles and abandoned books is spot on. Knowing when to walk away is not giving up. It is good judgement. Life really is too short to keep turning pieces that bring no joy.

      I just keep thinking about the topic of jigsaw puzzles and abstract art in the context of the paintings I made and the blog posts. Is there a genuine connection?

      On the surface they seem worlds apart, one has a fixed and predetermined answer, the other has almost none at all.
      And yet the more I sit with the idea, the more the parallels seem real. Both involve looking closely at fragments and trying to find meaning. Both reward patience and a willingness to sit with uncertainty. And with both, the picture only reveals itself gradually, piece by piece, layer by layer.

      It’s a connection I never expected to find and I’m still not entirely sure what to make of it. But that, perhaps, is the most interesting kind of thought, the one that keeps turning itself over long after you’ve walked away from the table.

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  2. Don Cheke
    17 March 2026 @ 8:38 pm

    Thank you for your thoughtful responses in this blog post and the last. You are a fount of wisdom!

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    • Suhail
      18 March 2026 @ 10:46 am

      That is very kind of you to say, Don, though I think the wisdom here has been very much a two-way street. Your reflections on both posts have given me more to think about than I expected and that, for a writer, is one of the nicest things a reader can do. Thank you.

      It does make me wonder sometimes. Where do our thoughts actually come from? What do jigsaw puzzles have to do with abstract art? What do the roots of a weed have to do with life?

      On the surface, nothing at all. And yet the mind keeps finding these threads, pulling them together, making connections where none seemed to exist.

      Perhaps that is what imagination really is, not the ability to invent things from nothing, but the ability to find the hidden links between things that appear completely unrelated. And when those connections suddenly click into place, it feels a little like finding the right piece in a puzzle you weren’t even sure was solvable.

      If that is the case, then maybe the mind itself is the most extraordinary jigsaw puzzle of all. Endlessly complex, never quite finished and full of pieces we haven’t yet found a place for.

      Maybe!

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      • Don Cheke
        18 March 2026 @ 1:52 pm

        Thank you for the kind words, Suhail.

        I think that you have hit the nail on the head by saying that abstract art and jig-saw puzzles, as well as the roots of weeds, help us to find meaning. It seems that the human mind has that unique ability to find connections, and if one is predisposed to finding the deeper meaning in life, one can’t help but see them. Is this just something romantic for the artist in us or is it a powerful way to make sense of life and live with a core of happiness? Although I occasionally doubt, I think it is a powerful way to make sense of life.

        I agree with your summation. “If that is the case, then maybe the mind itself is the most extraordinary jigsaw puzzle of all. Endlessly complex, never quite finished and full of pieces we haven’t yet found a place for.” That is very deep and perceptive!

        I am so glad that I found you and your blog! It is always something to look forward to.

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